Please Teach This

I feel that in one large way our Bible schools are failing the ministers they are training. They are not preparing our up and coming ministers in the realities of church transformation. There is a huge shift in the approach to ministry that has been occurring over the last 10 years or so. Our young ministers are as passionate about God as any other generation, they are well-grounded in the faith an in our doctrines, and they possess skills and intelligence that are on a par with any generation ever produced. They are passionate about social justice, life change, worship and discipleship, but in a way that differs significantly from the previous generation. I truly believe that the changes in perspective from this generation are more significant that any previous generational shift. These ministers are truly effective, technologically savvy, and relational. The problem is that the churches they are inheiriting haven't seen this new way. Many of them have had wonderful long-time pastors who served their congregations for decades. These churches are still doing things the way they did them decades ago. Then the long-term pastor retires or dies and it is time to get someone new.These churches, with a core group of older people who have belonged to the church for decades realize that they need an infusion of young people and think that bringing in a young pastor will do it.

Where the breakdown occurs is in the differing of expectations. The people of the church are good people who love God and the church. They don't know any other way, and aren't especially interested in learning any new ways. The young pastor knows only the new ways and isn't especially interested in learning any old ways.

Of course, no one admits to any of this in the selection process. The church falls in love with the new pastor with his pretty wife and kids. They see an infusion of energy in their midst that they can enjoy. They just know that this young family can round up some more good solid young families and their church will be happy again. They can do some painting and fixing up of the nursery, and they will be ready to go and grow just the way they did when they were the young families. After all, it worked then, it should work now. They tell the new pastor that they know some things have to change, and he should feel free to do whatever it takes to get the church growing again.

The young pastor takes the reins and his mandate for change and goes to work. The hymnals disappear and new choruses are sung. Guitars and drums show up on the platform. There is talk of a projector and screens replacing the song books. Maybe the people grit their teeth and endure that because, after all, that's what the young people supposedly want. But things get tense when the young people the new pastor brings in start showing up. They are disrespectful. They wear shorts and flip-flops to church. They have tattoos. They are of different races. Now, instead of having the monthly pancake fellowship, the new pastor wants to have a before school breakfast for really rough kids around the neighborhood. These kids cuss and speak rudely to the servers. Even though they live in walking distance from the church, they have never been inside the church before. The new pastor thinks things are going really well. Attendance is growing, people are being reached for Christ and all of a sudden he is informed that the board is calling for a meeting to vote on his ouster.

This scenario plays out over and over, but we keep doing things the same way. We teach our Bible school students to pray, how to seek and cast vision, and how to take spiritual authority in their congregations. They are told to lead with confidence. But they are not told what to do when they take a declining church. They are not counseled how to build relationships before casting their vision. They are not taught that being voted into office does not automatically give them permission to do things their way. They are not told that they should not believe the encouragment to make changes. They need to make friends, first. They will eventually be invited to lead, but that will only happen after they have gotten to know the folks well enough to earn the benefit of the doubt. They need to be told not to change a thing- even if it means gritting his teeth during every service because the song service is awful and no one seems to care about outreach. They need to be told that they need to listen to all of the long boring stories of how wonderful their predecessor was. Until that is done and he is truly "one of them", he will be the outsider and will be in the minority in every controversy. These people have been there their entire lives; he just got there.

But we're not doing that. Instead, we are sending these highly qualified people into situations without basic tools for survival. Churches and ministers suffer needlessly as a result. I think that is just awful.